I Only Say This Because I Love You: How The Way We Talk Can Make or Break Family Relationships

Deborah Tannen


The author reveals why talk among adult family members so often leads to arguments and hurt feelings. Using real conversations from the lives of real people, Tannen shows us how to talk in a family. This is a high wire act as we balance connection and power, struggling to get close without giving up our freedom. By helping us understand what conversations in the family really mean, she shows how to improve relationships with family members throughout our lives.


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